An Interesting Question

As I was going through my email this morning, Ryan chimed in on my messenger for a chat. I always enjoy chatting with him, we have some very interesting discussions. If you read his blog Boys Are Ugly But So Cute, then you know that he and his partner Mike are planning a move to St. Petersburg, Fl next month. This is an important step for them as they will be on their own in their own space for the first time as a couple. This came about because of a job offer to Mike in Fl and Ryan spoke with his parents and a few others whose advice he valued and made the decision to support Mike and move down there with him. I think it is a wonderful move on their part and will prove to be a rewarding experience for the both of them. I sent him the picture below because it reminds me of the two of them and symbolizes the move to the beach on their part.

They really are my favorite couple, so I wish nothing but the best for them in this move and I look forward to reading of their adventures in their blog. In our discussion this morning we of course got around to sexy guys as we both enjoy good eye candy and a interesting question came up. Ryan thought I should blog about it so here I am putting the question to you all. In the matter of sex, does size matter as much as skill? Are you one who would prefer a guy with an average endowment that knows how to leave you quivering with ecstasy or would you rather have someone with a larger endowment that is less skillful in his performance? There are many schools of thought on this subject, and we both had our own way of thinking about it. I, myself would fall into the average endowment category, but I have never had any complaints about my performance, as my skill level has improved over the years and I have had many a good teacher. I have no problem with having sex with someone with a large endowment that is skilled in his performance, after all what is not to like about a slow, sensual long dicking that reaches the inner you leading to frenetic, pulse pounding conclusion leaving you begging for more? Nothing that I can think of!

I do have a problem with some guys who think that just because it is so big they can just slam it in and take care of themselves without a thought for you thinking if it is good for them then it must be good for you. Wrong answer! I have always thought that it was not the size of the tool that mattered as much as the skill with which it is wielded. I have had lots of sex with guys of average size that were amazing lovers who have satisfied every fiber of my being. I have also had sex with some guys whose endowments were somewhat monumental but did not have a clue about satisfying their partner as long as they got off. I have also had a couple of experiences with larger guys who get off by causing pain just because they can again without a thought for the satisfaction of the recipient of their attack.

There are of course many ways for two men to enjoy one another in bed, many of which are satisfying to both partners without power plays and pain involved. Sometimes just the intimacy of being together holding one another is enough to send you happily into dream land. Sometimes rather more action is required to send you off to the same place. There is sometimes a thin line between pleasure and pain, where a little "pain" results in big pleasure. The nipples on some men's chest are hardwired directly to their cocks and a nip or two will bring that raging hard on that you love so well. In other cases a nip or two causes a man's love tunnel to do the most amazing things to the man who is thrust inside.

What do you guys think? Is size more important than skill? Or is a balance between the two to your liking? I have had lots of satisfying experiences over the years with men of all sizes, colors and shapes. I have seen endowments from very small to omg is that real? All of them have taught me one thing or another and my life has been richer for it. Leave me a comment with your thoughts or drop me an email at the address in my profile. I will leave you of course with some photos to inspire your thoughts. So until next time as always, EnJoy!

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